Thursday, 20 December 2012

Facing trials of life with godly attitude


‘I have told you this so that you will have peace by being united to me. The world will make you suffer. But be brave! I have defeated the world!’ ( John 16:33)
Introduction
Trials have been the common experience of humankind throughout history. These trials and storms speak powerfully to the human heart and reveals our broken, weak, sinful and frail nature as ordinary mortals. We all experience hardships, trials and troublesome circumstances in life. All these overwhelm, test, shake and sometimes erode our Christian faith unless we cling to truth - negative emotions, fear, doubts, long standing disappointment and hurts, ill – health, sudden death of a loved one, family difficulties, community and national afflictions and tragedies which perpetually leaves us in prolong sadness and misery because of years of seemingly unanswered prayers and expectations. Even when life sometimes seems to fall apart, we know through our Christian faith that God is in perfect control strengthening and guiding us in every step and changing our circumstances for good.
Why does God allow trials?
The Lord’s ways are totally beyond our ability to understand as human beings. Knowing that God has the ultimate powers can leave us wondering why He would allow our painfully tragic circumstances in life. Why does He allow us go through hard times? Sometimes, we Christians even assume that if we are following the Lord, our lives will be problem and trial free. But Jesus never promised His disciples lives of ease and comfort, but on the contrary told us to expect tribulations (John 16:33). Christ Himself was not exempted from afflictions and sorrows. He was called ‘a man of sorrow’ (Isaiah 53:3). The Lord uses hardships to achieve something good in our lives, but whether we experience these benefits or not depends upon our response.
What is Our attitude and behavior during trials?
Yes, trials and troubles are inevitable part of life, they pop up unexpectedly and come in all shapes and sizes. The question is what is our behavior and attitude when experiencing difficulty or pain? Do we grumble and complain or indulge in self-pity? Or do we get angry and blame others for our troubles? All these reactions lead to despair, frustration and misery. However, St. James presents a totally different perspective about suffering when he said: ‘Consider it all joy, my brethren, when you encounter various trials’ (James 1:2-6). He urges us not to merely delight in pain and be happy about suffering, but to assess our trials as an opportunity to receive the blessings God has promised us when we respond wisely.
Godly perspective for hard times
Dr. Charles Stanley suggests that knowing and determining the sources and causes of trial can help us understand the wise way to react – either is from the self, others, world, Satan or God. He enumerated some godly perspective for hard times in his article titled Wisdom for the trials of life in the InTouch Magazine of January 2012:
·         The Lord controls the timing and intensity of my trial.

·         He has specific purpose for allowing it.

·         It may yield something in me that I presently lack.

·         If I trust God with a joyful attitude, I will benefit from adversity.

·         Christ wants to demonstrate His ability to sustain me under great pressure.

·         He walks with me every step of the way.

·         Through the power of the Holy Spirit, I will come out of this trial victorious.[1]
Right attitude to embrace for the trials of life

ü  In difficult times, we must always remember that God will meet all our needs.

ü  During difficult times, we must learn to cling to the Lord’s promise that He is in complete control. We have certain Biblical assurances that help us endure even if we do not understand.

ü  We must understand God’s purpose for testing our faith and perfecting us. God teaches us through our mistakes.

ü  Cooperate with God’s goal. There are far bigger picture than what we are able to see, and God weaves circumstances together in beautiful ways.

ü  Trials are often necessary to draw us near to God. We can be confident in trials when we rest in the fact that Jesus is in complete control, and will work everything out for our good.
Conclusion
St. James tell us that the crown of life awaits those who persevere under trial. ‘Happy are those who remain faithful under trials, because when they succeed in passing such a test, they will receive as their reward the life which God has promised to those who love him.’ (James 1:12). Though Jesus said we would face troubles in life, He offered encouragement: The ultimate Victory is His, and He will work everything out for our good!

Rev. Fr. Michael Adefemi Adegbola, Director Media Service Centre, Kaduna Nigeria 2012.



[1] InTouch Magazine January 2012

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