WITNESSING IN A CHANGING WORLD

‘For those who declare publicly that they belong to me, I will do the same before my Father in heaven. But if anyone rejects me publicly, I will reject him before my Father in heaven.’ Matthew 10:32-33

Witnessing is never an easy business. It requires great faith, courage and grace from God. Modern life is dominated by industrial and economic forces that surround us. Generally, these conditions put great strains and demands on individuals, families and communities, and challenge our Christian Faith and value of our witnessing. These socio-economic and political aspects of the changing world cause us to continually adjust the ways in which we respond to the needs of our people through the witness we give especially to the weaker and disadvantaged members of society: the little vulnerable ones, the old, the sick, the physically and mentally challenged, the handicapped and marginalized.

The tremendous impact of globalization and secularization continues to challenge us who are Christians. How do we courageously stand for Jesus in the midst of skeptical and hostile world; and in this turbulent and unpredictable times where the Christian Faith is ridiculed and Christians mocked? Giving testimony and bearing witness  to the Gospel values openly and fearlessly calls for great faith and courage. The Church and indeed Christians should never be afraid to engage with the tough questions and difficult issues of our time. Jesus Christ establishes His Church to continue His ministry of teaching and the Church speaks today with authority of Christ.

In a world which is increasingly becoming cruel, grasping, indifferent, insensitive, skeptical and cynical, Christ challenges us to walk without fear along the road of faithfulness. With the help of the Holy Spirit, we must give public and private witness to Christ love, truth, peace and justice in our homes, offices, schools, hospitals, market places, banks, hotels sports field, trains and buses. Through witnessing for Christ by  a life of prayer, good example and service, we can electrify the natural order and affairs, and let our Christian principle to saturate education, government and public affairs. Through our bold and generous following of Christ, we can create Oasis of hope, peace, and freedom for our citizens and transform our national life for good.

Our failure is our refusal to abide by, apply and live by the Gospel values. It is not enough to confess Christ in the Church on Sundays and at prayer meetings and fellowships and then do whatever we like thereafter; we must keep our eyes fixed on Him and inject His values into all we do any where we find ourselves. I  think that we can truly witness by making our homes and Churches places of love, harmony, understanding, truthfulness, godliness and righteousness.

We want to note with deep concern the callous and inhuman permissive attitudes of Christians of the modern world in thriving on the life of deceit, dishonesty, corruption, cheating, violence, exploitation and slavery. We have become so satisfied with the life of selfishness and mediocrity; we pretend a lot and are busy slandering, telling lies, blackmailing, destroying and killing others. We put covetousness before character. We must remember that we cannot build self by pulling others down. We cannot reach enduring height of success on the misfortune of others. It really makes no difference how long we have been Christians, how much we know the Bible, nor what creed we profess. If we have not learned how to fear and trust God, and not be afraid in the face of the numerous crisis of our time.

Relativism has become the problem of this current age. We have relativize and subjectivize issues to the point that we don’t recognize sin as sin (losing the sense of sin). In fact, Bible alive of January 2008 notes that we have committed a grave mistake by growing weary of the language of sin and evil, and seeing it as a burden and perceiving it as a throw-back to previous generations. Today, because of modern attractions and external trappings, we do many harmful things to poison and tear down our Christian life.

Obviously, it does not take long for us to realize that we are on a path to self destruction. Just as it does not take a little child long to learn that hot things such as the toaster, oven, lamp, stove, electric iron will burn. They also quickly learn, that sharp things like razor, knives, scissors, needle, can cut and injure them. They learn to respect and keep away from these things until they can become their masters in later years.

So, we too must respect ourselves and not choke our lives and God’s creative powers in us by demonic destructive tendencies, but strive to live by Christians values so that we can resist the world temptations bravely and resolutely. Let us remember in the words of Ghandi that: ‘A drowning man cannot save others.’ We must declare to stand for Jesus in these troubled  and perilous times, and give witness without fear or shame.

Rev. Fr. Michael Adefemi Adegbola, Director Media Service Centre Kaduna Nigeria

CLERGY AND LAITY RELATIONSHIP: COLLABORATIVE MINISTRY

Introduction

We live in a world of merger, collaborative partnership and collaborative ministry, where cooperation at all levels have become very vital to make institutions, business conglomerates and nations unite together to solve problems and challenges in common. The purpose of this collaborative relationship and partnership is to promote mutual openness, understanding and collaboration and foster a the spirit of joint effort towards common goals for the common good, and work together for a new socio-economic and religious order, where human dignity and human life matters more than material possessions. The Church is established by Christ as a communion of life, love and truth; and also used by Him as an instrument for the redemption of all; and as light of the world and salt of the earth. Collaborative ministry in the body of Christ is therefore a communion of life, love, truth and goodness for the salvation of souls.

Christ’s faithful according to the Code of Canon Law and Vatican II

Christ’s Faithful are those who, since they are incorporated into Christ through baptism, are constituted the people of God. For this reason they participate in their own way in the priestly, prophetic and kingly office of Christ. They are called, each according to  his or her particular condition, to exercise the mission which God entrusted to the Church to fulfill in the world (Canon 204 par. 1).  By divine institution, among Christ’s faithful there are in the Church sacred ministers, who in law are also called clerics; the others are called lay people (Canon 207 par. 1). Therefore, Christians are called upon to work for the common good and the promotion of a more just society by actively participating in the economic, political, social and cultural life of the society.

They are the faithful people of God “who share in the priestly, prophetic and kingly office of Christ, and to the best of their ability carry the mission of the whole Christian people in the Church and in the world.” (Lumen Gentium 31). Christ’s faithful, conscious of their own responsibility, are bound to show Christian obedience to what the sacred Pastors, who represent Christ, declare as teachers of the faith and prescribe as rulers of the Church (Canon 212 par. 1). Clerics on the other hand are to acknowledge and promote the mission which the laity, each for his or her own part, exercises in the Church and in the world. They are always to do their utmost to foster among people peace and harmony based on justice (Canons 275 par. 2 and 287 par. 1)

The Status and role of the Laity

The status and role of the laity is absolutely important for the growth and development of the Church and Society in the 21^st century. In fact, each passing day should challenge the Laity to reach higher and higher and to excel in their performances, while improving effectively in their responsibilities. By reason of their special vocation, it belongs to the Laity to seek the Kingdom of God by engaging in the temporal affairs and directing them according to God’s will. The Lay apostolate is a positive participation in the saving mission of the Church itself, and the Laity are called upon in a special way to make the Church actively present and operative in all activities of human endeavors, and where only through them the Church can become “the salt of the earth and the light of the world.”

Benefits of building a Collaborative Relationship in the Ministry

God is a God of relationship. He constantly invites us into a relationship that is authentic, true and real (ATR). We must make efforts not to leave God out of our relationships by merely looking and seeking for human solutions even in the midst of our painful situations for healing as we walk in the centre of His will. Therefore, making time to focus on positive human collaborative relationships in the ministry is important, and learning how to improve upon it is absolutely vital. It is good for us to respect, cherish and care about the way we relate with ourselves, with our neighbors, with nature, God and the society.

Therefore, collaborative human relationships at all levels with the self, others, church, society and God are naturally most essential to life and the building of God’s kingdom on earth. It accompanying benefits are as follows:

Ø  It supplies love and affection and builds faith and confidence

Ø  Provides emotional support, encouragement and loyalty

Ø  Guarantees stability and security

Ø  Supplies positive companionship and friendship

Ø  Satisfies material, spiritual, psychological needs and fulfillment

It can be an elevating and enriching experience if pursued positively, but also can be as difficult and most horrifying as we make it if lived negatively, causing discomfort, division, heartache and frustration. The power lies within us to make our choice and we have to look in the right direction. What is our choice today?

Challenges of Collaborative Ministry

Everybody – Clergy and Laity have the task of evangelizing. In fact, a Christian who is not evangelizing is a Christian on early retirement. The following are some of the basic challenges of collaborative ministry:

·         Intimacy with God is our greatest and most rewarding pursuit in our collaborative efforts for effective ministry

·         We must have in common a sense of faith

·         Willingness to face the future that is different from the past

·         Change is needed and openness to new ways of organizing parish life and mission

·         Since our ministry makes demands on us, which requires full collaboration for effective evangelization in areas of education, health, catechesis, faith, pastoral and liturgical formation, different structures for organizing effective parish should be strengthened

·         There is a greater need of sharing resources,  responsibilities and activities between clergy and laity and neighboring parishes to foster good communion and mission

·         Faith sharing groups (Small Basic Christian Communities, Bible Study Group, Teaching and Catechetical ministries) should be encouraged as they are one of the valuable ways parishes develop and grow

·         Clergy and laity should work together to produce quality liturgy and atmosphere congenial for worship in parishes. This requires regular meetings and practice.

·         Deep concern for vocations must be shown, together with quality formation of our Seminarians. Engagement of the young people in evangelism is also a top priority.

·         Better communication is needed everywhere between laity and priests, parishes, deaneries and diocese. Communication is simply sharing of information, experience, ideas, feelings, problems and prospects for the development of the Church and Society. It is a process of active and creative listening, speaking, observing, questioning, reflecting, assimilating and the application of these to daily common human and pastoral concerns.

Conclusion

We must admit that organizing parish life and mission is never an easy business. So for our parishes to become vibrant, dynamic, welcoming and inclusive, especially in liturgy and prayer, there is the need for the recognition that we all share responsibility for the faith and life of our parishes. This means more collaboration, cooperation and communion. The Clergy and Lay faithful today, more than ever before need to acquire strong Christian Convictions, in the face of current trend of secularization, religious indifference and religious pluralism where so many believers cross one another. As Christ’s Faithful full of faith and vitality, we should be intensely committed to Christianizing and transforming the modern world. So we are challenged to take up responsible and effective witness to Christ in the world. We must remember that people don’t want to know how much we know, until they know how much we and Jesus care for them in the world. The Clergy, Religious and Laity should always be encouraged, supported and appreciated as they work with the Bishop in the promotion of the kingdom values.                                                                        

QUESTIONS FOR  DISCUSSION

Ø  How can the Church help to invest more in training the Clergy and Laity in foundational Courses of Theology, Catechetic, Bible Knowledge,  Traditions of the Church and Catholic Social Teachings so that their faith becomes stronger?

Ø  What should our new approach and strategy be in fostering cooperation, collaboration and shared responsibility between Priests, Religious and the Lay faithful in parishes and the Diocese?

Rev. Fr. Michael Adefemi Adegbola, Director Media Service Centre Kaduna, Nigeria 2011

LIVE IN GOD’S FRIENDSHIP

‘I call you friends because I have made known to you everything I have learnt from my Father’ (John 15:15)

Introduction

Let us begin by saying a heartfelt ‘Thank You to God’ for His mercies and blessings, and then renew our commitment as Religious to serve Him faithfully. Serving God is a wonderful privilege and not a duty for Christians who realized what God has done for them and who appreciates what a future reward God has in store for them.

X-raying the World we live and work in

Today, there is lot of unhappiness in the world. We see much poverty and suffering around the villages and cities; stagnation in the country, the growing situation of war and violence, indiscriminate abductions and kidnapping have led to economic collapse, human rights abuse, refugees and internally displaced persons, increased numbers of disabled people, orphans, widows, helpless and recklessly provoked unemployed youth and the scourge of HIV/AIDS which is no longer epidemic nor pandemic, but endemic in our society all over the world.

Fundamental Questions

The vital questions before us as Religious living Community life in a world that is increasingly becoming individualistic and selfish are: what values do we stand for and what modern strategies do we employ to face these challenges bearing in mind the sensibilities of religious, traditional and cultural differences? what do we do about a friend who treats us badly? What do we do about a friend who acts in clearly unfriendly ways? What do we do about a community member who is difficult and constantly rude? These are big issues that seems so prevalent in our communities and poses big questions that appears on people’s minds.

Friendship with God

Let us turn to our relationship with God. Our lives are precious gift from a loving God, and we have a splendid and a glorious destiny as we journey to the Father. As Christians the greatest gift we possess is the gift to love. It is a miserable and horrible experience not to feel loved and accepted anywhere. How comforting it is to know that Jesus loves us and calls us His friends; ‘You are my friends if you do what I command you’ (John 15:14). Jesus is the friend who will never, ever turn against you, and will always comfort you. He comforted many who felt left out, isolated, despised, unloved, abandoned and rejected and He will assist us walk the miles and bear the load. Jesus is our good friend because when we are tired and weak, depressed and frustrated, He gives us courage, hope and inspiration

We could know lots of facts about God - read from Religious Books, pray the Creed, recite the commandments, memorize the Bible, yet we might not have a loving and trusting relationship with him. In fact, there is a vast difference between knowing about God and knowing God. Even the devils believe in God and yet do not love Him.

Our choice

Generally, life offers us many opportunities to Love or hate and what we make of it depends on our choice. I  want to believe that friendship is one of the most rewarding gifts anyone can have. God invites us into a relationship that is authentic, true and real. There is always a thirst in every human heart. We are searching for something that will satisfy all our longings. The only problem is we often search in the wrong places. For those who have encountered Christ, the search is over; and this encounter can happen at any time and any place. Let us present at this moment to Jesus the wounded areas of our lives, our friends, our families, communities, and all those who suffer depression for forgiveness and healing. I strongly believe that there is no limit to what we can do when we trust God, work and pray together.

Who are Acquaintances?

Most people have lots of acquaintances but only a few close friends. Acquaintances are people whom we know a lot of facts about – where they live, What work they do, we exchange greetings when we meet and usually it does not go beyond that. We deal with them artificially, mechanically and casually.

Who are Good Friends?

The Holy Bible reminds friends to carry each other burdens (Galatians 6:2). You know a lots facts about them, yes, but a whole lot more as well. Walter Winchell said it best: ‘A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.’ You meet and stop to chat; you want to spend time with them, you share experiences and secrets; confide in them and also ask for advice, they build, encourage, appreciate, motivate and also compassionately tell you the truth about yourself. They care about each other and are careful not to offend; they treat each other with warmth and gentleness.

Who are Bad and Toxin friends?

They are constantly rude making insensitive comment and unkind accusation,, not appreciative and supportive; they keep so many uncharitable thoughts about friends, neighbor and community members; they judge, condemn, give harsh criticism, put you down, drain your life for their own gain, suffocate you,  and choke your abilities, they are deceitful and dishonest, and you get emotionally drained in their presence. They betray and backstab and disappear when the going gets tough and rough. Beware of them! Keep healthy and positive friends to build you up and challenge you to grow. The following healthy friendship Questions and Tips for ending a bad friendship taken from the Messenger of St. Anthony September 2010 may be helpful to you:

Questions to ask

·        Do you feel positively great when you are with an individual?

·        Is this a person who lift you up or load you down?

·        Is there equality in listening and supporting each other?

·        Is this friend truly empathetic

·        Can you count on him/her in any circumstances?

·        Do you share the same vision and worldview?

·        Does he/she knows her bounds and limits?

Ending a Friendship

When you become certain a friendship no longer works for you consider taking these three steps of ending it.

·        Do it gradually. Let your friendship end slowly, not through words but through actions. Don’t respond as quickly to calls, text messages and emails. Decline invitations. Distance yourself little by little

·        Do it in person. Try yourself to have a conversation with friend indicating you’d rather spend less time together. Do this face-to-face, if that is just too uncomfortable, do it by phone. Do your best to be non-accusatory and non-judgmental. Don’t go into details

·        Do it with maturity and respect. Always be mindful you are dealing with another human being who has feelings. No matter what may have transpired, be kind and compassionate. When ending a friendship apply this Biblical instruction: ‘Be kind and compassionate to one another.’ (Ephesians 4:32).

Conclusion

Well then, we conclude by saying that the good news for us is that Jesus is that Good friend who wants us to know that we are absolutely unique, and wants to comfort us and share our joys and sorrows. He wants to get to know us and spend time with us. He wants to liberate and change our mentality from drug, alcohol, tobacco, money, pleasure and material dependency to God dependency. He wants this relationship to grow stronger and deeper in love. Would we accept and let Him in? The choice is ours today!

Rev. Fr. Michael Adefemi Adegbola, Director Media Service Centre, Kaduna Nigeria

LIBERATION THROUGH THE WORD OF GOD

“All Scripture is inspired by God and is useful for teaching the truth, rebuking error, correcting faults, and giving instruction for right living, so that the person who serves God may be fully qualified and equipped to do every kind of good deed.”

(2 Timothy 3:16-17)

Introduction

The Bible Week for the Year 2011 is here again. Let us thank God for the privilege to celebrate the Bible. The Holy Bible is an incredibly fascinating Book and like no other thing, it holds a special place in the minds of Christians around the world. It speaks of God’s love, power and promises to His children regardless of their background, culture, race, gender, age, denomination, or social status. St. Jerome calls it God’s love letter to us, and in addition said: “He who is ignorant of the Scriptures is also ignorant of the power of God and his wisdom. Ignorance of the Scriptures is ignorance of Christ.”I remember a friend saying to me “You know! I can’t forget the incredible power and wonder of the Word of God, which nourishes, liberates, and strengthens me every day.” Indeed, the Holy Scripture is a priceless treasure much love and dear to many Christians, as it offers us hope, inspiration and encouragement to look unto God with confidence and to stay rooted in the heart of Christ drawing on endless grace and strength.

Sacred Scripture

Sacred Scripture could be likened to the life giving air, which purifies and gives new life. Just like oxygen is a life giving element found in the air we breathe, so is the life giving power of the Word of God, which has the wonderful effect in revitalizing, renewing and restoring broken lives, devoid of hope. In fact, there is no investment, which pays such great dividends as giving quality time to wholehearted prayerful reading, listening and applying of Scripture to life. This certainly makes a great difference in our lives, as it strengthens our minds to achieve wholeness and gain consciousness of our oneness with God; and also enlarges our ability to rise triumphantly over stumbling blocks of life and make them stepping-stones to victory in God.

The Bible describes in details God’s loving care for his children, and to know what God is like, we must spend time in his Word. Let’s be encouraged to obey God, spend time in His Word, and fellowship with Bible study and Faith sharing groups for the nourishment of our faith and sanctification of our lives. If only all will learn to know the strategic importance of the living Word of God for the conversion of peoples and transformation of the society. We do not realize the incalculable harm that we inflict upon our lives when we overlook, ignore and relativize the Word of God as Christians.

Beneficial effects and Influence of the Holy Bible

Do you realize how powerful ordinary words can be? Surely you must have experienced the profound impact they can have on your life? Perhaps you have been blessed by a loved one’s expressions of care, love and comfort; or maybe you have seen how destructive people’s words and remarks can be. What we say can heal those around us and draw them to God or drive people away from Him and us.

Great are the beneficial effects and influences produced by Sacred Scripture, as it does the following:

·        It purifies, gives new life and builds the Christian Faith

·        It nourishes and enkindles the faith of people grown cold by the errors of materialism and atheism,

·        It leads to conversion of people and transformation of the society

·        Hearers and doers of the Word are blessed

·        From the Word emanates power awakening the dormant energies of many hearts, and without doubt, helps us to get out of the valley of despair and strengthens us to overcome obstacles

·         As the flower pours out its perfume and fragrance to all to enjoy, so would the Word of God uplift and pour forth blessing to all who accept, believe and live it. So, in this moment of doubts and desperation, of confusion and uncertainty, let’s stand on God’s promise that has given us assurance of victory in Christ Jesus and leading us to freedom and holiness.

Conclusion

In conclusion, I want to affirm that the Biblical Apostolate promoted by the Bible Society of Nigeria (BSN) concerns all in the Church, and all should be concerned about its promotion. BSN is playing a vital role in the education of Christians in the Bible. It is aimed at making the Word of God written in the Bible in many languages known, loved, cherished and sharing this knowledge and love of the Word with other people. The ministry of the Word really occupies a place of priority in Evangelization and greater efforts must be made to provide access to the Holy Bible for fruitful use and effective witness among our people. There is indeed power, liberation and healing in the Word of God.

Have a grace filled Bible Week!

Rev. Fr. Michael Adefemi Adegbola, Director Media Service Centre writes from Kaduna, Nigeria 2011

FACING THE REALITY OF DEATH

‘For I am certain of this: neither death nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nothing already in existence and nothing still to come, nor power, nor the heights nor the depths, nor any created thing whatever, will be able to come between us and the love of God, known to us in Christ Jesus our Lord (Romans 8:38-39)

Introduction

Death is an inevitable reality and ever remain a mystery to mortal man. Sooner or later we all shall certainly die, but in reality no one knows the hour, day and time the Lord will call. It could happen today, in the next second or minute. Just recently we witnessed the unexpected senseless and scandalous killing of thousand of our innocent citizens including our beloved Youth Corp Serving members in some part of the Northern States following the announcement of the Presidential elections results. Whether anticipated, prepared and planned for, or unexpected and sudden, the death of a loved one is usually devastating. One thing is certain about our life in this world as the hours and days go by, and as the months and years passes by – one day it will come to an end, and each of us must face the fact and reality of our own mortality. This is not easy you know and it is only human to be afraid. Are you afraid of dying? The very thought and challenge of death has a way of confronting our faith by revealing our fears, our doubts, our attachments to this world, and our ultimate powerlessness. No matter what our situation is, all of us will face the cold reality of death one day. It makes no difference where we live, how wealthy we are, or how much influence we have. Everyone of us is destined to die and must deal with this question of death at one point or another. The question is what would  you do if you know that you are going to die today? Every event of death should speak to us and challenge our complacency.

My Stories

To lose a dear one unexpectedly is always a shock and to watch someone die is always a shaking and painful experience. Those caring for the dying at home, nursing home or hospital may also experience anxiety, stress, tension and even anger to face and carry this overwhelming burden. My junior brother Daniel, died  thirteen years ago at the age of twenty-nine of kidney problems. Both kidneys were gone and by the time he was diagnosed surgery and replacement were ruled out. Given his critical medical condition he was forced to confront the thoughts of death courageously. There was no lie about it. Daniel was dying and none of us denied it. As his sickness advanced, he became frail and weaker. Looking at his blank eyes and his restlessly pale body on his sick bed in the hospital, it was clear that the end has come, and I had to pray and speak to him words of promise and hope of being with the Lord, Jesus Christ that gave him courage and grace to close his eyes in peace. He in turn spoke to me and his wife, Ruth words of repentance and blessing. He finally gave up after painful series of dialysis in Aminu Kano Teaching hospital Kano.

Again, I remember my experience of pain and anguish of having to helplessly watch Bishop Joseph Sunday Ajomo of Lokoja Diocese Nigeria die slowly of cancer at the hospital in Rome. Truly I was confronted apparently with the question of the purpose of human existence. I came face to face with the reality of my own nothingness and emptiness as an ordinary mortal. I was completely paralyzed as I thought of the emotional anxiety and mental agony the bishop must have undergone. I was broken within me and cried in my heart uncontrollably for days. When I pictured and imagined myself in his situation, the thought of it gave me an incredible shock and I felt shattered and abandoned. However, the thought of all those around him who offered him love, care courage, prayer and hope also gave me some consolation. Then I realized quite soon that I had to surrender everything and simply trust my pains and desires for healing to Christ. Then I also understood that death is much more than a physical or medical event. It is also a spiritual event that is just as important as the day we were born. The prayers and comfort of others, and the inner strength provided by the grace of God helped bishop Ajomo on his sick bed to prepare happily for his death. While smiling and assuring people that he was fine, he faced his death with such admirable calm and dignity. He died praying and finally gave up the ghost. Bishop Ajomo is simply unforgettable! His words to my friend Fr. Dominic Adeiza,, his priest then studying in Rome continued to re-echoed in my heart again and again, ‘My son, do not hold tightly to yourself anything in this world. Hold fast to God and be totally committed to Him.’

The Christian understanding of death

In the Christian circle, death does not have the final word. Blessed Pope John Paul II said, ‘The whole of the Christian life is like a great pilgrimage  to the house of the Father (Tertio Milllennio Adveniente 49). The Bible tells us that God’s purpose for His people is to glorify Him (Isaiah 43:7). Holy Scripture tells us, and tells us quite clearly, that by the death of Jesus Christ on a Cross, death itself has been conquered, its bitter sting has been removed, and in a day yet to be, it will be destroyed. Through his death and resurrection, Jesus showed us the path back to God. Now the challenge that death presents to us is the question of whether we will trust in Jesus Christ and His promise of resurrection. Death is the ultimate enemy of every human being. It defeats us all. Jesus was the only one who conquered it, and in doing so open for us the wonderful new life beyond the grave. For sure our bodies will die, but death is not the end and that we will rise body and soul on the last day. Therefore, for us Christians being alive in Christ is suppose to be a full time experience. We can approach the challenge of death by staying close to Jesus. He is always with us especially as we face our final days. He promises to be with us until the end of time (Matthew 28:20).

Facing the stages of dying

A loved one facing death is likely to experience a wide array of emotions – anger, depression, disappointment, the fear of the unknown and depression. Psychologists reveal that it is normal for a dying person to go through these periods. We need to understand the stages to better support and care for them. However foreseen, nothing can totally prepare those closest to the dying for the feeling they also experience as  careers, as identified by Dr. Kubler-Ross in her book on death and dying. These turbulent stages ranges from shock, numbness, disbelief, denial and isolation, anger at God, doctors and nurses, deep grief, feelings of guilt for what was not done for the deceased, bargaining, depression, acceptance and relief that the person is finally out of pain. These feelings may repeat themselves many times over the succeeding weeks, months and even years before we can declare ourselves truly healed.

Helping people to cope with grief

In fact, the death of someone we love point up vividly both how fragile and how precious is the gift of life; a precious gift to be used to the glory of God. In ministering to the needs of the bereaved our roles include:

·         Our presence. The assuring presence of friends and family is absolutely soothing

·         To support, comfort and console, and link both grief, hope and reconciliation

·         Visit and pray with the family in their greatest pain and asking Jesus to give them peace and comfort. A little prayer or reading from Psalms or the Holy Bible can easily bring a sense of peace

·         It is okay to weep and pray together with the flow of God’s grace – a faith-filled prayers can prove to be far more precious and helpful

·         Speak words of promise, hope and blessing and the joy of being with the Lord. Offer emotional support and help the bereaved work through the grieving process.

·         Perform simple deeds of love and show compassion in little ways (A touch of a hand, a stroking of hair or just silent sitting together. Don’t be wrapped up in idle, boring and empty talks

·         Encourage and thank other caregivers for all the good works they are doing, and give family the opportunity to frankly share their pains and struggles.

Conclusion

We conclude by saying that the fear of death is not only understandable , but human and natural. All who partake in burying the dead are fulfilling their spiritual duty and will receive outpouring of special grace and blessings. No matter how familiar we become with death, it remains  a difficult unsettling question and we must live good and victorious Christian life to prepare for our own final journey. Our approach to death should flow out of our Christian faith and commitment in Jesus Christ.

Rev. Fr. Michael Adefemi Adegbola, Director, Media Service Centre writes from Kaduna, Nigeria, 2011

USING MODERN INFORMATION TECHNOLOGY OF THE MASS MEDIA FOR EFFECTIVE EVANGELIZATION

Today too, in an increasingly globalized society, Christians are called, not only through their responsible involvement in civic, economic and political life but also through the witness of their charity and faith, to offer a valuable contribution to the laborious and stimulating pursuit of justice, integral human development and the right ordering of human affairs – Pope Benedict XVI Message for World Day of Peace 2011[1]

Introduction

A warm welcome to you and heartfelt thanks for your invitation. I offer you all Cordial Greetings and say Congratulation on your Tenth Year Anniversary Celebration as a Diocese. It gladdens my heart to be here with you at this Special Occasion of your Maiden Diocesan Synod holding at Our Lady of Perpetual Help Pastoral Centre, Grace-land Area, Zaria, Nigeria where we gather today to reflect and brain storm on the Mass Media and Effective Evangelization in the Modern World.

In the spirit of this Synod, let us move forward with optimism and great faith, and a profound willingness to face the future that will be different from the past. We should recognize that change will be needed and openness to new ways of organizing Parish/Diocesan life and mission. A change which will create parishes in the Diocese that are vibrant, dynamic, welcoming and inclusive, especially in liturgy, prayer, catechesis and evangelization. This Synod should stimulate in us the recognition that we all share responsibility for the faith and life of our parishes and Diocese. Better communication is needed everywhere between parishes, from Diocese, and between Priests, Religious and People taking special cognizance of the local, rural, urban and educational context and composition of the Diocese. Yes, I am convinced that the reality of our changing society is enough to convince us of the need and urgency of Evangelization. It has also become very clear that there is the absolute need for the training and education of Catechists, Evangelizers, Seminarians, Religious and Priests in the new methods and strategies of evangelization. In this digital continent with its spread of multimedia communications and its rich ‘menu of options’ according to Pope Benedict XVI, pastoral presence in the world of digital communications is absolutely important.

Changing realities and New Emerging Frontiers

Life is continually changing and bringing with it new technologies, innovation, developments, advancement, problems and challenges. We live in an age of Mass media and there is no doubt that the Mass Media are altering every aspect of our societal life – culture, religion, social, economic and political. This great transformation poses tremendous challenges to us Communicators, Preachers, Catechists, Evangelizers, Teachers, Parents, Pastors, Youth and Children of the urgent need to comprehend and make use of the Mass Media productively and creatively, to understand and transform our world. In this period of dramatic technological and social change, we need to cultivate effective strategies to use the Media as facilitator of democracy and for effective evangelization for nation building, and not as instrument of repression and confusion, and by so doing make it relevant to the demands of the new age.

Understanding the New Media Technologies

These new technologies – computers, lasers, global system of mobile communications (GSM), cell phones, cable and satellite telecommunication, internet, face book, email, chat, texting, World Wide Web (www) and U-tube which are evolutionary process, are creating greater acceleration, opportunities, possibilities and challenges. So, Evangelizers must become conscious of the new language, techniques, cultures and perceptions of the modern media world, because if we are not informed, we will become deformed. We must strive to acquire skills and good understanding of the usages and application of these new technologies and implore new methodologies for effective media evangelization.

In this world of amazing electronic media and a million ways to communicate, social networking is a big business. Things like face book, emails, chat and texting reveal our hunger to connect with another, yet many people still feel lonely and don’t get it right. Kids don’t talk to parents, parents don’t talk to kids, and husbands don’t talk to wife. Surprisingly, many homes, workplaces, and even Churches and our parish communities are becoming gatherings of strangers. We live and worship together without truly knowing each other. In fact, the age is becoming unreasonably demanding with too many confusing choices and too much information.

Pope Benedict XVI in His message for the 43^rd World Communications Day notes with great interest the pastoral possibilities and gains to be derived from our authentic and active engagement in the world of communications thus: ‘The accessibility of mobile telephones and computers, combined with the global reach and penetration of the internet, has opened up a range of means of communication that permit the almost instantaneous communication of words and images across enormous distances and to some of the most isolated corners of the world; something that would have been unthinkable for previous generations. Young people, in particular, have grasped the enormous capacity of the new media to foster connectedness, communication and understanding between individuals and communities, and they are turning to them as means of communicating with existing friends, of meeting new friends, of forming communities and networks, of seeking information and news, and of sharing their ideas and opinions’.[2]

Powerful influence of the Mass Media in shaping modern minds, values, attitude, mentality, behavior and lifestyle

In modern times, children and youth are exposed to a tremendous amount of television viewing. They spend more than five hours per day viewing TV, videos, playing video games; internets surfing that are filled with commercial, educational and violent programs. The children and youth today are bombarded by advertisement messages that encourage them to eat unhealthy foods and drinks, and buy unnecessary materials they don’t really need. In these days of instant news, we regularly hear and see images of terrible calamity in our world.

Similarly, popular videos, music and visual images make the imagination of our children and youth to run wild. The generations of youth today are looking for answers to the many crises in the society. The lyrics of music and powerful modern media images speak to them loud and clear. The images children and youth absorb can leave them traumatized and vulnerable for life. They might not distinguish between fantasy and reality. It is very vital now to monitor the content of TV, video programs and even destructive pornographic images on the Cell phones, and to set viewing limits. Researchers have revealed that TV and internet in moderation can be a good thing; but too much can also be detrimental. They have also generally revealed that:

• Videos laced with violent images can make the youth antagonistic and more likely to condone violence. Children and youth who view violent events are more likely to believe that the world is a bad place and something bad will happen to them. Ours today is a culture of violence as pervasive as the air we breathe and this contributes to the pollution of the environment in which we live.
• Anti – social and stereotyped videos and programs increase anti – social behavior and acceptance of gender stereotyped behavior
• Sexually charged videos and programs makes the youth more accepting to premarital sex. Some channels and pornographic sites today show immoral films under the guise of blue films. It is alarmingly shocking  to see pornographic videos cassettes, tapes and CDs being sold in open markets and shops in Nigeria, at cheap and affordable rates to all especially in some major cities in Nigeria. Studies have shown that children/youth that watch lots of sexual/cigarette/alcohol content on TV or the net are likely to pick up these habits, because the product placement makes such behavior normal and acceptable. TV is full of programs that depict risky and dangerous behavior such as illicit sex and substance abuse as cool, fun and exciting. Positively, there should rather be TV discussion and program about the consequences of drinking alcohol, taking drugs, smoking cigarettes and having pre-marital and extra marital sex.

The Positive Role of the Mass Media in effective evangelization for national development

The media serving the public through evangelization should be influenced in her crucial role by a people centre-vision, based on human rights, social justice, peace, truth and sustainable development. Service to the society rather than profit accumulation should be a top priority, and to spur the people to behave and act responsibly with the view to improving the society and bettering the living standard of the people.

• The content of the mass media should foster national unity. The media should be used as catalyst for development to facilitate democratic tenets and spiritual principles, and not as instrument of slavery and destruction.
• Teach the principles, values and skills of development through special radio and T.V programs for youth and women empowerment. Promote peace and conflict studies to educate youth against violence.
• Mass media has special power to accelerate changes in the society because it contributes actively to the development of cultures, beliefs and new orientations.
• Mass media exposure can promote greater social, economic and political participation in the society and by so doing contribute to change and stability in political institution and processes.
• Stimulate the process of political and religious education, awareness, analysis and responsible commitment for integral national development through programs of mass mobilization against ignorance, slavery, poverty, exploitation and violence.
• Ignite the sense of nationalism and patriotism among citizens, and also create an enabling environment for creativity and innovation with a view of setting firm foundation for an enduring and fruitful political future.
• Information and education can build people - and information and people together are much more powerful and valuable than money alone.  Furthermore, the Information Revolution has initiated a Spiritual Revolution - according to futurist William E. Halal “We will then enter an era of spirit.  You can see it starting today as people embrace values, beliefs and visions - all of those things that are essential to navigate through the mass of information, to find meaning and purpose. 

The challenges of active engagement of the Media for effective Evangelization

Since religion itself is basically a communication experience between God and human being, the task before the Church is effective communication meant to ultimately glorify God. We should get more deeply involved in evangelization through the media.

·         Web presence is very important where you have variety of good news on line packed with news, articles, reflections, talks, powerful spiritual testimonies and inspiring prayers

·         prayer line for prayer request and for questions and answers of the Christian faith should be opened

·         e-ministry, e-apostolate, e-pulpit should be encouraged through blocs, U tube, chat, text messages, web radio, web television, and face book because they provide great place for interaction, exchange, connecting to people and keeping in touch with friends, and also posting photos and videos

·         The use of electronic media – radio and television should also form an important part of our evangelistic ministry. Holy mass, Church services, fellowships, biblical and catechetical programs should be packaged for radio and television broadcast;

·         CDs, VCDs, DVDs, Tapes and inspiring books on sermons, life of Saints and the Catholic Social Teachings, Newsletter, Bulletins, pamphlets and magazines should be made available and sold in our Bookshops and Churches.

·         The culture of reading and building family and parish Library should be developed and encouraged.

·         Evangelizers should be encouraged to take courses in computer information technology

·         Do awareness courses in technology for computer appreciation and knowledge; courses on information management and communication

·         Our lay people are also faced with the challenge of active engagement, involvement, contribution and participation in public discourse on vital issues on the Holy Bible, and Church doctrines and politics. Good religious publications, motivational and inspiring books on human development, social teachings of the Church and Papal messages should be carefully studied and taken seriously.

Basic Obstacles and barriers to effective Communication Evangelization

·         Lack of sufficient media infrastructure and communication equipments

·         Lack of adequate funds

·         Lack of professional competence

·         Lack of sponsorships for religious programs and publications

·         Inadequate opportunities for professional training

·         A change of attitude of pastors and evangelizers to communicate with rather than to the people.

Although, obstacles and roadblocks can make us frustrated, angry, or ready to give up; but in the spirit of this Synod, as re - strategize while walking in obedience and trust, God will demonstrate his power in our circumstances. Since life is a team effort and no one gets far alone, once in motion as a team united in Christ, we cannot be stopped. Our mission is unstoppable! I would like to say dear friends that in spite of the difficulties, frustrations and roadblocks of the moment, there is still hope if we strive on prayerfully in faith and love.

Conclusion

These new media technologies should be used not as an oppressive, manipulative and destructive force, but as a positive, constructive, transformative, creative and productive force to serve the church and the society. In view of these great challenges and necessity, the Church is challenged to invest more in the training and retraining of agents of evangelization for effective evangelization; Greater efforts must be made by the Nigerian Church to support and train lay pastoral personnel and Evangelizers in the usage and applications of modern communication technologies for effective evangelization for the transformation of the world.

I most sincerely thank you all for your attention.

ENDNOTES

[1]  Message of His Holiness, Pope Benedict XVI for the World Day of Peace, ‘Religious Freedom, the Path to Peace’ 2011

2  Message of His Holiness, Pope Benedict XVI for the 43^rd World Communications Day, ‘New Technologies, New Relationships; Promoting a culture of Respect, Dialogue and Friendship’ 2009

Rev. Fr. Michael Adefemi Adegbola, Director, Media Service Centre, Kaduna Nigeria 2011

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[1] Message of His Holiness, Pope Benedict XVI for the World Day of Peace, ‘Religious Freedom, the path to Peace’ 2011

[2] Message of His Holiness, Pope Benedict XVI for the 43^rd World Communications Day, ‘New Technologies, New Relationships; Promoting a culture of Respect, Dialogue and Friendship’ 2009